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wildflower , 03 Mar 2010

What I have found that helps

What I have found that helps: I am almost one week without picking and that is something BIG. I have had this problem for more than 20 years with seldom a day without picking. I’ve been on probably every systemic antibiotic to address acne, including accutane, having been treated by a number of dermatologists. It has involved my scalp, face, nostrils, neck, back, belly, breasts, arms, butt, thighs, and shins at various times, sometimes requiring better than 60 bandages at one time. It has been distressing and depressing for many years. I’ve also been on many antidepressants for much of that time. But lately, with a new resolve to understand and conquer this insidious affliction, I have been doing much research and have over the last few months made changes to my daily regimen. With today being day 6 of no picking and feeling like my efforts are beginning to pay off, I’d like to share all of what I believe is contributing to my success which I am sincerely hoping will be much longer. Please bear with the details: I try to be kind to my skin and recommend to … wash with warm water, not hot … use a fresh washcloth daily … rinse with cool water (not cold) to address inflammation and to close pores … pat dry with a clean towel … DO NOT PICK … bandage broken, weeping or bleeding sores immediately after cleansing using prescribed medication or a topical antibiotic (if possible) … dress non-broken sores with an anti-itch, anti-inflammatory analgesic ointment (like Tronolane – yes I know it’s for hemmies!, but what better than something intended for such delicate tissue?) … if going out into the world, use sunscreen … apply a moisturizer (avoiding bandaged areas) if you suffer from dry skin … apply makeup to lesions not bandaged … take morning medications, vitamins and supplements for daily health and skin care (a multivitamin, extra A, Bs, C, D, and E vitamins as appropriate, omega-3 fatty acid, calcium, and bromelain) … wear an elastic band around one wrist to snap if you catch yourself touching/scratching/or picking… keep fingers away from your skin (wear gloves if need be) … reapply ointments/makeup as required during the day … drink lots of water … eat well … exercise … limit caffeine, alcohol and tobacco use … and as early as possible at the day’s end, wash up with a gentle soap such as Purpose Gentle Cleansing Wash … rinse with warm water to remove the soap, then again with cool water (not cold) to address inflammation and to close pores … pat dry … DO NOT PICK … immediately bandage up ALL broken, weeping or bleeding sores as well as any lesions that may present temptation to pick at unconsciously over night … apply anti-itch, anti-inflammatory analgesic ointment to healing areas prone to itching to reduce chance of unconscious urges to scratch … take night time medications and supplements (more omega-3 fatty acid, chromium picolinate, etc) … connect with supporters (friend/family member/online group) to share your day’s successes re skin care … pat yourself on the back for a job well done … and get a good night’s rest of 7-8 hours of healing sleep. Although I have a couple of slow-to heal spots that are still needing bandages, I did actually enjoy one night in the last 6 without any bandages!! I'm hoping that soon I won't require any. I am feeling very hopeful about myself and hope that each of you will soon feel as good and with such hope.
30 Answers
40daysfromnow
April 17, 2010
Another thing I find helpful: I just bought very expensive alpha hydroxyl (spelling?) acid (AHA) cream that I think should only be used on non wounded skin. So when I have the urge to pick I remind myself that I spent a lot of money on my face cream and want to be able to use it. I keep in in front of my mirror.
jenna90
April 19, 2010
wow.. this all helps so much. not just all the advice but knowing that people have been where i am right now and that there's hope for me yet. 9yrs of battling and feeling absolutely awful and feeling like there was no way out. Today was the first time i told someone what the real problem is after seeing countless dermatologists, doctors etc and being wrongly diagnosed of a simple acne problem. I sought out this site and am relieved to know that its common and that there is a way out. Thanks for sharing the advice... I could not do this alone. One question though... a bandage is a 'small sticky' thing you put on your face, is that right? Just a barrier in communication haha... i think we call it a band aide here. Thanks again, and here i go.... DAY 1.
wildflower
April 19, 2010

In reply to by jenna90

yes, bandage = bandaid. the latter being a brand name. i try to avoid using brand names of products like tissue vs kleenex. and yes, you certainly sound like you are experiencing too many years of frustration and anxiety dealing with this disorder. i feel for you and hope you will do all that's necessary to conquer this before many more years pass. the internet providing information so readily available and forums such as this certainly has made a difference in that we now can be informed and find support, important and empowering tools to assist the process. along with personal fortitude, it makes it possible to defeat it. strength be with you, you can do it !! <3 <3 <3
wildflower
May 02, 2010
with this i have managed to get through 66 days less 3 days (i picked a sore on each of them - different sores, but only three) so have 63 pick free days under my belt .... i have learned what it feels like to have healed skin everywhere on my body !! ... it can be done ... my setbacks have been small ... minuscule, even, in comparison to how things once were .... and how i swear i'll never let happen again .... at this time, i am winning the battle ... ☺☺☺☺☺ ... still, one day at a time ......
wildflower
May 28, 2010
in 6 more days it will be day 100 for me and so far i have picked at only 7 spots. only 7! it's not a perfect record but it's vastly better than before i started the 40 day challenge. the above regimen has helped me immensely because i changed my behaviours and i changed my attitude. i got serious about it. real serious. that's what is most important. unless something is really really wanted, it is unlikely to happen and no amount of outside help will make it happen. it must come from within. denial of one's own responsibility in the factor is the hugest obstacle to overcome. i realized that i was in denial for many years wanting some doctor to prescribe me the medication or treatment that would do it for me. i've been on enough medications and treatments and counseling to know that is not all that it takes. it takes personal responsibility, personal accountability, personal strength, personal determination and personal commitment to overcome it more than anything else. by all means, employ whatever tactics deemed to make it easier, but success will not come without the personal realizations.
MsBlueSky
July 03, 2010
Hey guys, This is an incredibly encouraging thread. I'm definitely going to try the bandages thing. I think covering up my sores will make the compulsion to pick them lessen. Do you all who have covered yours find that the urge lessens even when they are uncovered? I'm hoping that the urge will be easier to manage once the bandages are off and I've given them time to heal. It's amazing how I feel such a strong connection to you all just after reading some of your responses. I've only dealt with this for about a year now, but it made my senior year of highschool a living hell. I'm about to be a freshman in college, and I can't wait to be free from this affliction and to regain control of my life. Peace, Love, and Hugs!
wildflower
July 03, 2010

In reply to by MsBlueSky

my opinion is the bandages are imperative to help your skin heal quicker and with less scarring. when bandaged, you obviously can't irritate tempting sores or spots. they only postpone the inevitable though, so you must plan a course of attack on the compulsiveness to pick once a sore has healed and for all the tempting bumps and imperfections that will undoubtedly crop up. but perhaps in your case, since it is early in this compulsive behaviour, that bandaging might help break the habit. i hope so. i hope you can nip this in the bud with prompt, committed dedication to do so. the habit won't go away on its own. the behaviour must change. all the best to you. keep reading and researching for anything that will help you through this. ☺
brooklynfaith
July 03, 2010
Thanks, that really helped:) I am constantly pulling the skin off my lips and my cuticles. There's no way I could stop just on my own, so I was looking for a way that would make it impossible for me to do it. The gloves sounded like a really good idea, but it's usually anywhere from 90-100 degrees F where I live everyday, so I couldn't really do that. So I thought of something different. I wear tape wrapped just over the tops of my thumbs and over the nail. I usually just use my fingernails to pull the skin up, so that really helped, because the tape is really slick, plus having it there reminds me not to pick. Also, I wear a rubber band on my wrist and every time I touch my lips or cuticles (unless I actually have to) I pop myself. That helps more mentally though than anything. It works, but not as well as the tape. I try to always keep ointment or chap stick on my lips at all times. Carmex helps if you can stand to keep it on. It's medicated for fever blisters/cold sores but it helps heal things up faster.
wildflower
July 03, 2010

In reply to by brooklynfaith

it's great that you're finding and employing things that are helping. keeping your lips moisturized so they don't chap might be the ultimate answer. when i moisturize my skin with vitamin e oil, i ensure i do my lips too and they've stayed really smooth. i'm not sure about the ingredients in carmex, but i believe in simple remedies and fewer chemicals along with healthy practices.

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