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bottervliegie , 20 Sep 2010

21-Day Challenge

Hi everyone! I hate how I feel about myself and I hate how my skin looks when all I really want is smooth and beautiful skin. I figure that we've got this absolute desire to be beautiful and have perfect skin while spots, blackheads, coarse cuticles, ingrown hairs, etc. is not welcome on beautiful skin. So, a combination of this perfectionism, impulse and, well, addiction, makes us scar ourselves and also hate ourselves for doing so. .................................................................................................................................................... Now, here's my challenge: You've probably heard that it takes 21 days to combat and quit a bad habit. I am going to try and do it with skin picking. I have posted post-its on all my mirrors and usual picking spots in the house with just "DAY 1" to remind me of what I am up against. I will change this daily, but if I falter, I have to start back at day 1. .................................................................................................................................................... I really want to change my life and be free of this and I am going to take the bull by the horns... WHO'S WITH ME?? I will post my progress on this topic and I encourage you to do the same, starting with today as DAY 1!
241 Answers
meg1448
December 29, 2010
Well, I made it 21 days without picking my lower legs. I picked at a few other areas, mostly lightly. But the lower legs were the worst problem. I'm glad I did it, mainly to show myself that I CAN do it. I'm kind of shocked, actually. I guess now I go on to day 22? :)
sho1234
December 29, 2010
Well done meg 1448 for completing the 21 day challenge! U can do it- Carry on being strong! Ive dun day 1! Lets all make sure we are free and well by 2011!! X
Shorty999
December 30, 2010
Ok, day 1...already at the mirror for 2 hours total today...not going so well...but atleast I was a little easier on my skin...could have been 4 hours :(
Shorty999
December 31, 2010

In reply to by Shorty999

Ok, went to the dermatologist...she said most of my face looks great except for the couple spots that Im picking at. She gave me new cream to help with the itching for the eczema. I hope it works, but she said I have to stop picking. Well, I washed my face tonight and did not pick....first time I have not picked in forever...this is progress...so here goes the start of day 1 : /
BlackSwan
December 31, 2010
So glad to hear someone made it 21 days. I've only made it through 7 before - I'm now on 4. I had a few small slips, but have avoided temptation hundreds of times over the past few days. It's amazing how much it consumes my life. I've got to power through!!!
emythestrange
January 02, 2011
I really want to try this but I have the feeling that I'll fail... I've tried this before and I always make 'exceptions'. Like, for example, I'll see a small white head or something and tell myself it's ok if I just pick this one little thing, and then I end up picking at everything. So, to people who are on this challenge, are you allowing yourself any exceptions? Or are you just not going to pick at all? What if you got a zit? Will you just leave it? (the thought of that makes me shiver, I don't think I could leave it).
Shorty999
January 03, 2011

In reply to by emythestrange

I am on day 4...and like quitting smoking...i try to lower the amount of time I spend in the bathroom or the amount of spots I pick rather than completely stopping cold turkey, but this may not work, cause like you said, just like potato chips, once you start, you just can't stop.
sho1234
January 02, 2011
I know exacty what u mean emthestrange. But the whitehead wil go-as long as we look after skin and not make it worse. After 21 days our skin will look better-since we havent touchd it. I know its hard. X
cj
January 05, 2011
so i feel a bit like a broken record but i'm new here and was about to write about my experience with skin picking as well. instead, suffice it to say i can relate to so much of what each of you has said and although i've never joined a forum like this for anything before, i hope it can be the support and motivation i need to make the same changes all of you are working towards as well. after a bad episode on sunday, i've been able to stop picking for the last 2 days so i really want to join this challenge and do it for 21 days. i'm just wondering, have any of you been successful going 21 days (and longer) and can you talk about "overcoming" CSP? thanks for your support & honesty!
wolfandthefox
January 07, 2011
as soon as i read this challenge i knew it was for me, this christmas my mum bought me at set of beautiful cath kidston post it's and as much as i loved the gift i didn't think i would ever use them as i am not the post it type, but now i realise i got these for this purpose so i can keep track of my new start of no picking! thank you
lisa2324
January 08, 2011
So, I've detected a pattern with my picking. I seem to be able to go 5 or so days without picking at all and very few urges, but as soon that 5th or 6th day comes around, I feel an uncontrollable need to pick and usually just go at it. I'm so tired of these ups and downs and was wondering if anyone else has this problem?
cherrycolalola
January 14, 2011

In reply to by lisa2324

hey I do. I can go quite a while now without doing it, especially if I surround myself with people. But then sometimes when Im alone, or haven't for a long time I seem to go at it really hardcore. I seem to store feeling sometimes when Im not picking and they build up to the point where the only release that "works" is picking. Im tired of running away from my feelings/life though and disappointing myself. I dont like not being able to trust myself either. Youre def not alone
rdebruyn
January 19, 2011

In reply to by lisa2324

I read this a few days ago and realized that I do the same thing. I'll go 6 or 7 days with no urge and my skin heals and then, like a switch turning on, I start again until it gets really bad. I noticed that when I wear gloves, I have no urges, but I can't wear gloves 24/7. Every time I've tried to stop, I start wearing gloves after it gets too bad. This time I waited until my 6 days were up and the switch turned on and then put on the gloves. My skin already had a week of healing by then and now I'm 2 days with gloves, so I guess I'm on day 9! I've actually managed to kick the habit for long periods (months to 1 year) twice in the past. At 49, I think the best I can hope for is to have as many long periods as possible. I don't think I'll ever be free, but can be in more control. I hope to get to a point where I mainly have control, but have brief bad periods. If you can see trends in your habit, try and use them to your advantage.
anonymous31894
January 12, 2011
I started my own forum about this challenge 2 days ago that I will keep going with because its therapeutic but I couldn't pass up joining in on this one as well because there are so many other people involved. unfortunately, even though I started 2 days ago I have yet to be really successful because I allowed myself exceptions which I got carried away with and though did no damage I can't cheat myself and count it. hopefully tomorrow night I can write DAY 1.
sbailey805
January 13, 2011
Wow, it feels extremely reassuring to know that I'm not in this boat alone. I have a pretty gnarly case of Keratosis Pilaris (KP) that I've had all my life. I grew up with really bad acne that only went away after a rigorous 7 month Accutane program (after everything else in the book... seriously.) But with these problems have come a consistent problem with picking my skin all my life... a lifelong habit. I have researched ways to manage KP, but no ways to cure it (any more suggestions?) and it is the main cause of my picking habit. I've pinpointed some triggers such as stress, anxiety, boredom, thoughtlessness, just seeing the bumps, perfectionism, MIRRORS... etc. This problem of mine has not only affected me, but loved ones and potential job opportunities (performing arts) and it's about time to quit for good. I need my skin to heal... for me, first and foremost, but also to show gratitude for those I love who have supported me along the way. So, I'm new to this site and read this challenge just about exactly a week ago... and I said "Hell yes! I take this challenge!" And first time around, I made it a week. I picked today, day 7. So I start again tomorrow at day 1. New and fresh and stronger than before. I have to get rid of this habit. I look forward to reading previous posts over again after I post this to gain more insight on tips and tricks. I'm too stubborn to not let this happen - I have to meet this challenge face to face then put it to rest - I need to move on with my life. And I am grateful to have found this site for feedback and insight.
Jolene
January 14, 2011
Well, on my third try I finally did make it to 21 days and my skin was looking pretty good. Then due to the time of month (my acne is largely hormonal) my skin broke-out and I picked again. I am under a lot of stress with a new job and my fiance and i got in an argument (which is always a trigger) and then i just picked. It seems this challenge is never ending... like they say in AA, you have to take it one day at a time and success means not picking today. So now I am back on the horse, starting over again... At least now I have the incentive of knowing that my skin really will respond to this and heal and that the longer I make it the better I will be able to feel about my skin. The added pressure here (and motivation) is that i am getting married in 6 months and would really really love to have clear skin and to feel beautiful on that day in front of everyone important in my life. I have definitely found that the bathroom, any bathroom, is the danger zone. The moment I see a bathroom mirror my mind goes blank and I am dawn to it in this sort of zombie state. I have found a few things that help: I only turn the lights on in the bathroom if i really have to (like when i am putting on make-up), I simply try to avert my eyes from the mirror so as not to be drawn in, and most importantly, right before i enter the bathroom i say a sort of affirmation to myself of my intention, such as" I am not going to touch my face, I am simply going to brush my teeth and then leave". This seems to help keep me conscious of my actions. So, here's to another 21 days! Salud!
Jolene
January 23, 2011

In reply to by Jolene

I made it to day seven and things are starting to look a bit better I guess. I had a few rough days there where my emotions, hormones and skin were all going haywire, but the worst of that seems to have passed for this month. Also, I have an appointment today with a holistic dermatologist who people say is a miracle worker, so I am feeling hopeful about that. Someone on this forum said something about beginning to recognize the body language that proceeds a picking session and stop in your tracks before you have even located a "target". So, noticing things like leaning in towards the mirror or tucking my chin to pick at my chest, or when my fingers start to creep around searching for something to pick and then stopping the moment I feel those gestures begin. This advice has been really helpful the last few days. Thank you for posting it. Sharing these sort of tips is so helpful.
gtilly19
January 17, 2011

In reply to by Jolene

I am with you on your quest to stop the picking. I am on DAY 1 today and reading your posts have started me on my quest. Thank you Jolene. We can do this!
reggie99
January 16, 2011
this is day one for me, wish me luck guys! you all are an inspiration for me. :)

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